Everyday Tantra on Tour: Exploring Deeper


Most of our lives we are told what we shouldn’t be doing, what we aren’t supposed to explore, what we can’t possibly accomplish.

Yet there is a soul song so deep within some of us, that begins as a whisper and graduates to a scream……

“Yes, you can!”

Are you ready to hear its call?

What if there were a place on earth where almost every taboo and shameful fantasy you have ever imagined were legal to explore?

What if you had 4 of the top intimacy, consent, and Tantric mentors there curating and supporting your whole adventure?

Monique Darling, Wilrieke Sophia and Peter Petersen are bringing you the experience of a lifetime!

Who are you?  Why are you here?  And what is in the way of you accomplishing your dreams, goals and desires?  

These are some of the core questions to living a tantric lifestyle.

Many people have invested a great deal of time and money into traveling to exotic far-away places to dive into Tantric practices and to utilize them back in their everyday life. However, once we leave the bliss bubble of the beautiful retreat center, or vacation paradise and return home to our normal daily lives, we can find it painfully challenging to implement these practices.

How can we implement these ancient ideas of moving energy through breath, movement, sound, and touch, into our normal everyday lives?

This is what Everyday Tantra: Exploring Deeper is all about. Bringing practices to life and into your everyday life, in a retreat that is nothing like you have ever experienced before!

A 10-day exploration into what’s possible when the limits and boundaries of your everyday life are expanded.

First the place… Amsterdam!

A city in a country known for its freedom, medicine, prostitution, free speech, Tantra, kink, intuitive gifts, and so much more. The land speaks to you, the culture welcomes you EXACTLY as you are.
We have rented 3 gorgeous houses, just far enough into the countryside to give you some peace and tranquility, close enough to the heart of town to explore at ease all the liberation Amsterdam has to offer.

What makes this more than a vacation? And what makes this more than just another Tantric retreat or intensive?

After a workshop, you can realize your life actually didn’t change at all.

After a vacation, you might feel like you had some time off, but didn’t really recharge.

This retreat brings you experiences and imprints that rewire your system. You will come out changed – sustainably and without big efforts. 

These days will be totally immersive!

David & WilriekeWe will all eat together, sleep together, travel together, journey together (if you choose, there are two optional medicine circles) AND you will each get a session with two incredible practitioners helping you get to the root of what’s in the way of you living the life of your dreams right now?

You will either have a Peter/Monique combo or a David/Wilrieke combo depending on when you sign up and what type of hands-on session you are looking for.

There will be classes covering various topics such as:

  • Tantra; the path of falling in love with yourself
  • Conscious Kink; embodied empowerment and surrender
  • Intimacy and sensuality; opening up to the deepest love within and between.
  • Guiding you to trust your inner knowing, and to develop your relationship with your intuition Bringing awareness that our life is shaped by day to day choices – helping you become aware, where choices are based upon: is it trust or fear or something else?
  • Conscious relationship design (to improve your relationship or prepare you for the best relationship ever)
  • Receiving imprints and markers of what is possible to experience in life.

You can expect cuddle workshops, temple space/play parties, chi-qong classes, yoga classes, meditation, sharings and much more.

There will be two (optional bonus) nights of medicine journeying, one led by the four of us and one led by an amazing local female Shaman.

Additional to all this, there will be many field trips out into this amazing one of a kind city including taking you to an entire area dedicated to psychedelics, mushrooms grown right in the shops! We will take you to the red light district, all of us celebrating each other in any exploration you’ve always wanted to try in that arena… 

We will take you to the famous Sex Museum, and quirky little shops you won’t find anywhere else.

Sunday morning we will take you to the world famous Ecstatic Dance! Amsterdam has one of the best crowds for this medicinal movement journey with the best DJ’s in town.

Are you ready to let go of any voice in your head saying you can’t, you shouldn’t, you aren’t allowed? Are you ready to cross off fantasies that you thought would forever remain on your bucket list?

Are you ready to immerse yourself with 15 other pioneer adventure explorers ready to learn how to fully say yes to yourselves?

How deep are you willing to go down the rabbit hole? This is not for the faint of heart, or the person who longs for life to be safe and tidy, who wants to transcend their more primal selves.

This is for those of you who read this and the whisper that’s been inside your whole life is now roaring…

It’s time to be ALL of you!


About the Facilitators

Monique Darling

Monique Darling, Author of ‘Beyond Cuddle Party’ and workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 1500 workshops in the past 8 years. She is the founder of Juicy Enlightenment an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going to www.juicyenlightenment.com or track her whereabouts at www.whereintheworldismoniquedarling.com.

Peter Petersen

Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 14 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 10. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.

Wilrieke Sophia

Wilrieke Sophia is fascinated by intimacy and interaction between people. How can you connect as deeply as possible, on different levels and in different ways? Once she was a very shy and insecure girl herself. Many years of exploration taught her how to accept herself on the deepest levels and surrender with a smile to life. Her path brought her into the realms of tantra, BDSM, non-monogamy, healing, shamanism, mindfulness, meditation, and her horses taught her about empowered leadership and dynamics between individuals based on body language and charisma. Wilrieke Sophia holds a degree in forest- and nature conservation and is the mother of three daughters.

Wilrieke Sophia was the first to facilitate Cuddle Workshops in The Netherlands. Through her company Exploring Deeper Wilrieke hosts a wide range of workshops, retreats and individual sessions based upon a unique blend of cuddling, consent, tantra, conscious kink, sexuality, cuddling, authentic relating, healing and coaching in The Netherlands and the rest of the world. She loves bringing inspiring teachers from all around the world to The Netherlands. Wilrieke is also a passionate writer, writing for her own blog as well as a guest writer for e.g. Elephant Journal, Postmodern Woman and Rebel Society.


Some Practicalities


The event starts on Friday, July 27th at 17h. You are welcome to arrive from 15h onwards. The event is all-inclusive and immersive, meaning that everything during the event is included (except public transport) and we will live together for the full 10 days. We close the retreat on Sunday, August 5 at 17h.

Besides immersive tickets for the full 10 days, we also offer discount tickets for a 5-day experience! Come either July 27 – July 31 or from August 1 – August 5.


The language of the weekend is English.




Ticket prices are fully inclusive (except public transport and flight to Amsterdam), which includes your stay, all meals, entrance to Ecstatic Dance, the medicine circles and all the workshops and sessions during the retreat.

– Earlybird tickets: €1.950,-
– Regular bird tickets: €2.350,-
– Budget ticket: €1.750,-. We offer a limited number of budget tickets for people with fewer financial resources. When the retreat fills up, it means that you will sleep on a couch or mattress.
– Ticket-for-two: €4.150,- The ticket for couples, or if you bring your friend (you don’t need to stick together for the whole retreat).

A month before the event you will receive an email with extensive information about the event. If you have any practical questions, you can reach out to organizer Marlies; marlies@wilriekesophia.com 

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